Thursday, November 02, 2006

Judge Me, Not!

Having indigestion again due to some oily Chinese, sigh...

I have this friend(s) who is awfully judgmental, of me. For things that I'm doing, friends that I'm hanging out with, places that I go and people that I see. Who are you to judge me, when your life is none other than dreary? Who are you to judge me when your own happiness is in the hand of another woman? Who are you to judge me when you are not very much liked by people around?

Not only that, this friend(s) doesn't even has the guts to speak to me about it. Instead, blithering behind my back was what this not-so-little friend of mine did. Oh please, I've got a good pillow (thanks to the ex from hell) that doesn't give me a stiff neck, hence, I am capable of turning my head and watch the action behind my back *roll eyes*

I don't hate this friend(s), I know this friend(s) is a good people. But do you have to be that judgmental? I mean, this is my life, I live it and I love it. Don't pretend that you're concerned because I do not know how to appreciate it.

Maybe I'm now being judgmental, judging you on judging me.

p.s. all of you out there, give up asking me who this person is, this is one that I will not tell, I can't.

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Sun is up, bed time...

11 comments:

angela said...

babe, everyone has that kind of friend(s)... someday they'll be eating their own words when they see that you are HAPPY and GOT WHAT/WHO YOU WANT while they? They continue to sit around and bicker at your gorgeously glamourous M'sian-Tatler-style wedding (while you are not looking)!
wahhahahhahah....
=)

love... ll said...

Yes, you are right. But what bothers me is that this is a good friend, this friend is nice to me but this friend just want to treat me like a daughter, judging me by what's 'right' and 'wrong' in this person's standard, sigh...

You read Chinese Angela? If yes, about the Malaysian-Tatler-style wedding - 成你貴言!!!

Deisy said...

I also got this kinda friend. But this kinda friend will follow u forever. I mean, we fought before (verbally), and I too told him I don't like him judging me on the trips I chosed (bugger!!), the handphone I bought, the company I joined (#$%@!!), etc... it is just too much.

But we are still friend now. Just not the "best" type of friend lah.

angela said...

Lynn, i do read chinese, but my this pc cannot see the chinese words oh... write again in "abc" can ah?
(all i see is strange punctuation marks, haha...)

love... ll said...

Angela, in Mandarin it'll be "cheng2 ni3 gui4 yan2"; in Cantonese it'll be "seng lei guai yeen"

Un?

love... ll said...

Deisy, funny thing is this friend still treats me very good. Sigh... I don't know what to do man.

t0othfairie said...

I like your nailpolish post. very appropriately put.

angela said...

Lynn, okok, I un already!!!
Hahahahhahahah!

steph said...

It makes them feel better about themselves when they have the opportunity to impart their worldly wisdom upon 'lost souls' like us

Unfortunately they will never realise that while they think they know it all, we're actually the ones standing outside and looking at them swimming round and round their goldfish bowl

Hurhurhur, layan only lor. After all you do know their heart is in the right place

JC said...

lynn... just close one eye and live with it. you can't change a person but you can tolerate rite? eventually it will go away. just like sour....ahahah....

did u get your hat?

love... ll said...

to0thfairie, we can somehow relate to it, can't we?

Steph, you're right, we can't expect everyone to behave like how we are. Diversities make up the world. I'm just gonna live with it.

June, I'm getting it tomorrow, can't decide what to wear yet. Bringing all the potential dresses out with me, let Jessie to help me decide.